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There was a girl named milli who was adorable , charming and loved to live her life in her own terms. In short , she was a free bird. With time she grew older, she turned to eighteen - a age where a human being in India can take his/ her own decision, can decide his/her goal in life and so Milli decided to complete her graduation in a field which is mostly dominated by the male students in India because they think that girls do not have enough potential to excel in this field. Whatever it is, she joined her dream college. She was living her own life whole heartedly. Then the years passed by and she was finally a graduate. It was her best day. She wanted to celebrate that day because after few days she will be busy with her job. Then finally she joined her job. She enjoyed this life too as she could call herself a SUCCESSFUL SELF DEPENDENT WOMAN. She was proud of herself.

But her life had a turning point too. She met her prince charming. She loved that man . She didn't want to loose him and thus she started obeying everything "he" said. But one day this so called "prince charming" of Mili asked her to leave her dream , he basically asked her to stop living her dream. In short, he asked her to live her JOB. A job which made her SELF DEPENDENT will no longer be there as she didn't want to loose "him". So when she asked her "prince charming" the reason why she should leave her job the answer was something like this "You can't manage house, children and your job all together. You can't give enough time to your household and moreover , i earn enough amount of "money" to meet your demands". She was shattered after hearing a reason! She asked herself that why did she become a graduate if only thing she had to do was cook food for the family and bring up children after marriage? For cooking and bringing a children isn't a school dropout enough? Why do men need a qualified woman for his house?

Wow !! hats off to male psychology which doesn't allow their wife with same qualification as theirs to do a job but want their daughter to do a job. They suffer from inferiority complex if their wife earns money but feel proud when their daughter gets a salary. They forget that their wife is also someone's daughter but don't understand that their daughter will also be someone's wife. They love to overlook their wife's dream, they love to fulfil their daughter's dream. They love to see a well figured woman in their office but can't see the pain behind his wife's eyes

To all the men having same pessimistic mentality like Milli's prince charming - we are women , don't try to manipulate us with diamonds, stars and moon. Don't teach us how to manage our house we are much more capable in it than you. We have our own dreams and are also aware of our responsibilities. If you can accept us with our dreams then you are a man otherwise you are good for nothing but a loser 




                 

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