A SMAll thought

With so many marriage invitatations, starting from sir r didi r biye and pasher r barir chele meye der biye, I wonder j ato khusi, anando,mauja kano kore lokera ??? Lokera jdio ba anando korlo , jei meye tar biye she anando kore kano??? She should not be happy(sir r abhishikta dhore petabe amaye :P) becz that is the only day which will change her lyf for ever, becz from dat day she can't be herself, before dng nethng she has to thnk bout dat sm1 else's feelings.She has to take permissions for every decisions. She has to take care dat no one is hurted becz of her words , attitude and behaviour and on top of all this her nly aim is to maintain peace and harmony in her in-laws house even if for that her only dream remains incomplete.. What i mean to say is j amra akhn jeram carefree lyf lead kori mane ma baba ki bollo patta o di na, ma babar opor rag dhorle chille di tarpor toh sorry o boli na emni emni shb thik hye jaye, barite ja khusi tai kori, nijer mtn thaki, jeta iche jst cheye ni nd kichu din r kichu masher mdhye peye o jai, jkhn khushi ghum theke uthi, ghor ta porjnto gochai na, jkhn khusi computer khule blog, iwriter likhi. Aei gulo amra aei jnne korte pari cz amra jani j keu kichu bolbeo na, ak2 rag korbe tarpor abar shb normal.. but biyer pore toh aeishb r hbena.. Koto kichu r saathe adjst korte hbe... mane shei so called ma baba toh r amader aei apdar gulo toh r sojjo korbe na.. Then amra biye kano korbo??? Jst to loose our very own identity??? Jst to forget ourselves completely and try to adjst with them even for wch our dreams, aspirations are compromised????